You invite her/him to dinner and want to leave a good impression. But you nervous and almost lost control. Then, be careful because there are things you should not ask for the first time.
1. Monthly salary
About how much money other people earn, it is not your job. If you ask this question, your opponent may think you're probably shirk paying meal. What's worse is that she/he can think you're begging.
2. Questions why she/he still single
There is no real answer to this question because it is not a compliment. Your implication behind the question? This only makes the stress on your date more. So the only answer you get is simply "I am single, because I'd like that." That means putting an end to the evening.
3. Ask opponent has never tried drugs
There is no way to answer this question without causing discomfort. If he answered yes, you will want to know what, where and with whom. And this is not your job. If the answer is no, you may suspect that your opponent honest. And anyway, why would you ask such questions in the first date.
4. A conversation about porn
This question is too personal emotional level now between them and the enemy will make a defensive attitude. The worse thing is that they will think you are trying to entice them. You can talk about this in the first appointment a few hundred, but the first time it will cause the enemy to run as far as possible and anger.
5. Location of how wide he
Alarm will vibrate because it sounds like you want the relationship to progress as quickly as possible. So whether your life is not stable because you do not have your own space. Did you date because you want to find accommodation?
5. Previous relationship
If you ask why his or her previous romance is not nice, it looks like you're blaming them and you are making your opponent feel like a loser. And anyway, do you really want to hear him tell what to keep previous relationship? Remember that you are dating, the present is important.
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